If you’ve been in a relationship any significant amount of time, you’ve probably had a fight or two with your partner where you wondered if you guys can ever recover. These types of fights can be emotionally and mentally draining. In the heat of the moment, hurtful words and actions can lead the relationship down an unhealthy road. Couples who have tools to move the relationship from disconnection to reconnection have a better chance of sustaining the relationship.

On today’s show, I will share the tools I’ve seen couples use to restore peace after a knockdown drag-out fight. We will discuss the cycle all relationships move through and the idea that the fight is never about the fight. I’ve also enlisted my husband, Horatio Neely, to discuss the things we use in our marriage to move through difficult times.

Mentioned during the show/resources:

Dr. Neely’s BackStory Master Class  https://neely-counseling-center-plc.ck.page/2f26127c0b

Psychology Today https://www.psychologytoday.com/

The BS Facebook Group https://www.facebook.com/groups/dropthebspodcast/

Psychology Today https://www.psychololgytoday.com/us