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 “Every challenge you encounter in life is a fork in the road. You have the choice to choose which way to go – backward, forward, breakdown or breakthrough.”-Ifeanyi Onuoha


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Calling All Mentors, Coaches, and Business Leaders

We Need To Close The Confidence Gap!

A half day workshop for mentors looking for an extraordinary approach to helping girls and women increase confidence


As a mentor, you clearly understand that your job is to inspire and build self-confidence. However, if you’ve been working with people any length of time you know it isn’t as easy. In fact, it’s darn right hard. Just telling someone to believe in themselves, have confidence, or stop settling for less isn’t enough. What you need is a reliable, time-tested method.  This retreat is for leaders who are ready to learn a new approach to changing mindset. You will get certified to use Dr. Kirleen Neely’s signature method, the BackStory Breakthrough Method™. The format is train the trainer, meaning that attendees will first focus on doing their own personal development then learn how to use the method to help the people they serve.

BackStory Retreat March 31, 2108

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Our mission is to help you close the confidence gap. The confidence gap is distance between what you tell yourself is possible for your life and what is really possible. To have a real confidence breakthrough you have to gain insight into your BackStory. Your BackStory is all the junk from past experiences you tell yourself no longer  affects you, while secretly it slips into how you think, feel, behave, and react to life today.



Eventually, your BackStory turns into a  defense mechanism, a pattern of behavior you exhibit when placed in situations that consciously or subconsciously remind you of the past. Your BackStory is tricky and resistant to change because it believes it needs to hang around to protect you from getting hurt. It automatically takes over and makes you do things like; go into fight or flight mode, shut down, isolate yourself, overreact to situations, and over think decisions and choices.

Dr. Neely’s method helps you recognize BackStories that are sabotaging your life and then teaches you engaging techniques to move past those behaviors and thoughts.  This method is especially effective for getting out of negative relationship patterns, improving self-esteem and increasing confidence.

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Ready to Get Started? Find out What’s Blocking your Success. Take the BackStory Quiz.

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Do you think  low self-confidence maybe part of your issue?  Need to know if  your relationship can recover from after an affair? Do you know if the way you think is getting in the way of your sucess? Get a quick answers by taking one of our quizzes. Choose the one that’s right for you.


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